Caring For Elders - 7 Tips For Preserving Dignity
Posted on Thu, Mar 10, 2011 @ 07:57 AM
By Hal Robertson
As elders continue to age and become dependent on others for all or part of their care, they can feel a sense of worthlessness and low self-esteem or lost dignity.
Following the 7 tips below can go a long way to helping you maintain your elder's dignity.
1. Never demand to help your elder - only offer your assistance.
2. Go out of your way to ensure that your elder always has money in their wallet or pocketbook. By ensuring your elder has money - say 10 $1 bills for example - they will know they are still an adult and one that can be trusted with money.
3. Always be at the same level as your elder when speaking with them. If they are in a wheelchair, be sure that you are sitting in a chair as well. Never give them the impression that you are "above" them because you are always physically looking down to them.
4. When speaking with your elder, do so no closer than 3 feet.
5. Always ask your elder to help with various tasks around the house that they can physically handle. Doing so will let them know that you value their assistance and it will make them feel wanted and worthwhile.
6. Always be positive when discussing their opinions, possessions and preferences for the way things are done around the house.
7. Always encourage your elder to offer suggestions for their care as well as other choices that impact their daily life. Never dictate to your elder. When you have an opposing view, engage them and explain why certain decisions have to be made, but do your best to allow them to have input.
By following these simple tips, you can have a profound positive impact on your elder's life. Not only will they be able to maintain their dignity, but you will both live a happier life.